...to my dear
I need you.
Feb 12, 2005
p.s. : We help too much for family, friends, others, but ignoring our needs. Sounding as a very self-satisfactionary statement, but what's really hiding; Are our ambitious to control/limiting our friends by making them guilty, appreciations from our work for others although we pretended for no returns, Hiding our true emotions, Complaining about things, and too/proud from our deeds.
We are "the Helpers". Yet, there are two directions to choose as we growing up.
When we are facing pressure or crisis, failure and helpless, we'll become "the Asserter"; We'll angry, 'people will forget how they got treated good in the first place', suddenly verbally or physically offense or refuse helping somebody, have violent intentions especially to ppl close with us, and think ourselves as victims.
But my dear it's alright, coz there's a cure. We can also be "the Romantic" way which we understand our hearts inwardly, focusing from others attentions into more of self-developments, we admitting our owns emotions even the negative ones, also; understands that we must not have to do something to gain others' love, we'll use arts to express our inner self(like ur blog, my violin and novelwriting), treat others more truthful, sharing communications and to give without returns.
Let's mark today as just a start, preparing our hearts for our romantic life.
Enjoying the Waiting for u/me is also an essential part of Valentine u know? hee~ Smile~
posted by Techdog @ 4:06 p.m.
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2 Comments:
Oh, u saw this and even replied, I'm really happy(true emotion). Hm.. like we've discussed, Let say we put all our values/educations we had ASIDED, do u feel happy? sad? angry? like it?, love him/her?, sorrow?..etc to a specific thing, maybe, let's say, ur life, or a specific friend of yours, and maybe a particular event(ie:winterlicious)..etc
Wow, good thinking.. yeah.. I know myself used values to decide or describe things, emotions seems come from it, but it can also come from unexplainable. So what's this really means, it means, inside our little amazing brain, we have concious and unconcious levels, and those emotions comes from concisous set of mind, including our values..etc. but there are also emotions from the unconcisous set of mind too(like we breathing, step left then right foot in order to walk..etc). How do we know it? well.. let's say a couple moved out into the wilderness, raised the baby without any values of death, suddenly parents both die, do u think the kid will be sad and cry?
if yes, it will be the unconcisous set of mind make us sad and cry, if no, we may never have to cry in history, which it isn't. So I guess what I mean by true emotion is emotions to a subject from our unconsious set of our mind. But again, that's just my comment, so only buy it if u want.
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